How DMIT can be helpful in married life?

Marriage is not only about love but also about commitment, understanding each other, forgiving each other’s mistakes, selflessly being there, communicating everything every day, sharing the joy, the misery, the ups and downs of life. Compromising little things to support your partner to achieve success in all areas of life.

Getting married can be an especially important decision in one’s life. And choosing a right life partner is a more important decision. And often, even after marriage, couples have conflicts & arguments which are normal but how they handle the conflicts and how they understand each other & communicate their way through can really impact their relationship. Now, you must be wondering why there is a need of DMIT in that? It is a couple’s internal thing, right? DMIT consultant can be helpful in two major scenarios: pre-marriage and post-marriage. Marriage is something which needs a lot of work and efforts and of course love, understanding, communication, and love can really give you a jumpstart in critical situations.

Now, we are not saying that DMIT will decide whether you should get married or not with that person. It’s not a compatibility test which will give you some marks or grades. It’s not a competition. DMIT is like a test to know more about our own self and not to compete with your partner. No human being is more or less than other, we are all different and unique. So, now you might be thinking how exactly does this DMIT will help?

DMIT for pre-marriage: –

Going for a DMIT consultancy pre – marriage can help you to know more about each other and we always suggest to take out some time and go for this DMIT. It helps in knowing things like how their personality is, their love language, life skills of each other according to 8 Multiple Intelligence. And knowing these small things about each other can help identify the areas of improvement, areas where communication is needed and help in dealing with problems more efficiently in future, and how to manage family by knowing one’s ability to do the task efficiently.

To understand this more properly, let’s have an imaginary case study.

Let’s imagine we have an engaged couple – Zara and Ajay. They are planning to get married but they want to know more about each other as well as themselves before they take this next step of their lives. So, they plan to go for DMIT. Now, DMIT consultancy not only it helps marriage but also career wise. So, Zara learns that she can be good at creative tasks and she always had an interest in doing designing. So, she and Ajay decided that they can open a business on fashion designing – start out small and then grow big. They also found out that Zara is good at managing finance, while Ajay was good at managing people. So, they divided the duties such that Zara will handle the finances and the investors while Ajay will look after the HR part of the company. DMIT also tells about behavior of a person. Ajay understood that he has temper issues while Zara has a calming nature. Now in conflicts how to sort the situation, they learnt this from DMIT consulting. So, you can see how DMIT consulting can help not only career-wise but also at home situations. It helps know more about each other before marriage and how to co-exist.

DMIT for post-marriage: –
For post – marriage, DMIT consultancy can help resolve issues. The communication which was lacking due to the misunderstanding can be mended. The lost love can be revived. And even often marriage, when the couple start knowing more about each other, it can either make or mar the relationship. And to help know more about each other positively can really help revive the love.

If there are kids involved, then this can help even more. As the conflicts and arguments of parents can really affect a child’s well-being and this can eventually turn out to be a little too negative for a child. So, knowing here about each other and communicating the decisions and thoughts can really help for the marriage as well as for kids.

To understand more about how DMIT can help for post-marriage, let’s just have another imaginary case study.
Suppose, we have a married couple named Zara and Ajay and they have 2 kids at the moment. They were going through a major life conflicts and work-related disputes and were having trouble sorting it out. So, they decided to go for the DMIT consultancy. During the consultancy session, they learnt that the business they were running together was not working out because they both were trying to do stuffs, they weren’t that proficient about. Through DMIT they learnt their strengths and weakness. They learnt that instead of both of them handling everything together, they can work more efficiently if they divided their responsibilities. Zara handled the creative work and took care of the management of people. While Ajay handled the clients and investors and lead the formal meetings. This helped them grow their business. At home, due to their constant conflicts, this also affected their children emotionally. So, they even decided to get the DMIT done for their kids as well. This helped them plan their kid’s career and also learnt how to help them out emotionally. Not only this, but getting their DMIT done helped them in parenting and in understanding their kids more. How to make them study efficiently, which learning method works the best for them, how the kids are emotionally – all this and much more they learnt through DMIT.

Hence, going for DMIT consultancy can help improve the quality of marriage and relationships. Note that, DMIT won’t tell you whether you should marry someone or not, or whether that person is right for you or not, but it helps you understand yourself more. It helps you understand how to help yourself and your partner in growing and helping each other grow. It doesn’t predict futures but will help you get on track with your goals and destiny of life.